Your access to the 5 core explorations and the bonus content is UNLIMITED. You can use this process again and again in new chapters of life.

For this special offer, you will also have 5 weeks of weekly Q&A support 12 weeks of weekly Q&A support.

It's none of those. Designed for busy leaders, this is a super-streamlined DIY process with explorations you can do in one weekend, one day, or spaced over a few "dates" either out or at home. If you join now, you'll get access to a new mini-retreat every week for the next five weeks. It's designed to give you just enough nudge so you can easily reset your intimacy to fit where and who you are today.

I include complete guidance for how to pick your own way of USING the 5 guided sessions I include.

Each one contains conversation prompts to direct you through a specific process of reflection, discussion, and intentional CHOICE together. These aren't forced "romance guides": they're evidence-based skills for hand-crafting an intimacy that meets you both where you are, with all the pressures you face and all your yearnings.

Each also includes a sensory-driven practice so you can communicate through touch and rewrite the patterns you may want to upgrade around how you initiate, respond, and communicate when you're touching. Every touch practice includes clear guidance for how to say yes, no, "would you please" and "I need to pause" so you can keep all touch feeling safe and you can practice moving forward together ONLY in ways that are feeling great to you both.

I give you bite-sized training with each of the 5 sessions, but those are optional if you don't have the appetite or time for them.

JUST ADDED: Now, you get a written bullet-point guide for each of the 5 explorations so you can create your reset entirely device-free. You can use the Executive Summary version and elevate your intimacy in just a few hours.

Or one or both of you can use ALL the supplemental training, (It's totally fine if one of you wants way more info and inspiration than the other! Guess which partner in my relationship has more appetite for training?!). You can also or pick and choose where you want to double-click. There's no way to do it wrong.

You just had a baby. Or another baby. You have teens skulking about. Perimenopause is wreaking havoc on your moods, skin, hips, and desire levels. Your cock can't make up his mind.

You have work stress. Business travel. Board meetings. "Sandwich generation" pressures. Old hurts that rear their heads unexpectedly.

Maybe pornography or infidelity or invisible labor or extended family tensions have caused hurt in your marriage.

YES. YES. YES. And YES. SANCTUARY helps couples whose chemistry is "pretty good" make it GREAT. But having been in a couple that encountered just about every one of those obstacles I just listed and having spent 28 years sitting with leaders whose heartaches span the gamut of life challenges and their impacts on their intimacy, I know this:

Sex lives downstream from everything else in your life and it takes all the runoff, good and bad.

That's why I added seven different Block-Dissolving Bonuses to SANCTUARY. Because I'm not leaving ANY marriage behind! If you both WANT to revive (or up-vive!) your intimacy, you CAN and I'm giving you every tool you need to do it. No therapy required. No workshops. No baring your souls to anyone but each other.

This is a stand-alone, DIY kit of tools that lets you create a complete reset of your intimacy WITHOUT the investment of time, money, and vulnerability it takes for my private clients to completely revolutionize their connection.

If you want to join them and get my eyes and heart on your relationship, I'd love that. You can DM me on Instagram (@tinylovehabits) or message my team at the bottom of this page to let me know more about where you are and what you're looking for.

People join SANCTUARY because they want the privacy and flexibility of using my guidance on their own time, without appointments or telling their story to anyone else.

NEW! I now include weekly Q&A for your first 5 weeks 12 weeks so you can ask me questions that arise as you set up your explorations and begin to use your new tools.

You'll have new conversations and new ways of touching and being with one another and I can help you if you get stuck or confused.

Once a week, I sit down and answer every question I've gotten from SANCTUARY students and share them with you. I keep all questions confidential but share the answers with all participants so you can benefit from them. If you want to ask a question and its answer would feel too vulnerable for you if I shared it, even anonymously and with any details removed, you can let me know and I'll answer privately.

Oh, you didn't watch the webinar and you don't already know me! I get it. If your partner is proposing you buy SANCTUARY to help with your relationship, you might be asking, "who is this!?"

I'm Michele Lisenbury Christensen. I became a business and executive coach in 1997, and over the years, more and more of my clients asked me to work with them not just on their leadership, but on their marriages. Since 2011, I have focused on high-achieving couples' intimacy.

My work lives at the intersection of mindful, nourishing connection, lifelong erotic fulfillment, spiritual growth through the crucible of love and family, and the nitty-gritty questions of whose time, energy, and desires matter in our families.

I have a master's degree in psychology, and I'm certified in Relational Life Therapy, developed by Terry Real; Fair Play, developed by Eve Rodsky; and a number of modalities of yoga, meditation, and sensual practice. I'm the mother of two teens. I lost my father in my teens and a pregnancy between my two living children. I am an addict in recovery and a gigantic nerd. My 25 year marriage to Kurt is our greatest accomplishment and an intense classroom. We love to travel and we entirely redesigned, remodeled and expanded a 1942 cottage together before our kids arrived.